Posted by banksxo on 2014/01/30 under Uncategorized So my parents split up like 3 years ago and my dad has a new girlfriend, right? I’ve met her and her family already- everything’s good. I’m supposed to graduate in May and obviously my parents are going to attend the ceremony; I don’t want to be mean and not invite my dads girl… but I don’t want to make my mom feel uncomfortable by having my fathers new girlfriend present, you hear me? I feel like it’s more of a family thing, and though I do consider my dads girl family- I don’t think my mom would be too happy. I could talk to my mom about it- and I’m sure she’d be fine with me inviting ‘that lady’ as she likes to call her (haha)- but I know she’d only say it was okay because she wouldn’t want me to feel like she’s choosing who I should invite to my own graduation. That’s just the kind woman my mother is… which is exactly why I shall not invite my dads gf. I won’t do it, sorry Rochelle.
I think it is your choice in this situation, which is more family based. I am sure it will be more comfortable for your mother when she is not there. Don’t feel sorry.. graduation is a huge thing and you want your close family members to be there1 i am sure your dad’s girlfriend will understand.
Thank you! I’m much more at peace with my decision now. (: